What do we do with unmet desires? That is a deeply human question, but one that might not be addressed or attended to if we have a view of life that avoids such difficulty and tension. Some would seek to live the kind of life that tries to fulfill all desires, whenever they emerge. Some others might seek to live in such a way that ignores or tries to suffocate desires because that is seen as something like strength or virtue. Others still might just live a life that has no consistent ethic, so that the question of what to do with our desires—especially our seemingly discordant or contradictory desires—has no central theme or reason. 

But Christianity actually calls us to wrestle with such difficult things as directly addressing and even confronting or living with unmet desires. Christianity is, if nothing else, a call to wholeness, to integration, because Christ is, in the words of St. Irenaeus, “the whole man” who brings his disciples to wholeness—to integration—in him.

In the new podcast series created and hosted by Abigail Favale and produced by the McGrath Institute for Church, the venture toward whole and integrated humanity is on offer. “The Gender Accompaniment Project” seeks to both identify a better understanding of the Catholic vision of gender, and attend to the personal stories of Christians who wrestle with gender as they seek Christ. This project is an exercise in encounter: going toward rather than away from points of tension precisely by going toward rather than away from each other in our pursuit of life in Christ.

This is the first of two episodes with my colleague Abigail to introduce this project, which consists of 10 episodes, released in batches. The first of these episodes will appear just about the time this episode which you are listening to now is released. Check out our show notes for ways to connect and listen to “The Gender Accompaniment Project” and for other resources that are sure to be of interest to you.

Follow-up Resources:

• Learn more about The Gender Accompaniment Project and the new podcast
• The Genesis of Gender: A Christian Theory, book by Abigail Favale
• “The Genesis of Gender, with Abigail Favale,” podcast episode via Church Life Today
• “Sex, Gender, and Feminism, with Abigail Favale,” podcast episode via Church Life Today
• “The Eclipse of Sex by the Rise of Gender,” by Abigail Favale, article via Church Life Journal
• “Gender, Bodies, and the Space of Responsiveness, with Angela Franks,” podcast episode via Church Life Today
• “Transhumanism and Human Nature, with Mary Harrington,” podcast episode via Church Life Today

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